tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post4680287385669486190..comments2024-03-17T12:00:55.617-06:00Comments on Donna K. Weaver: Judgers and PerceiversDonna K. Weaverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15763832177263927311noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-86207530832012704872013-02-20T20:36:15.084-07:002013-02-20T20:36:15.084-07:00This has nothing to do with your post but I've...This has nothing to do with your post but I've put you up for the Inspirational Blogger award. For the info, go to my blog...:o) I'm not sure how you get the code other than emailing me at kwixylver@cox.net. Sorry, I lost everyone's addy's when I got the new computer. Woo hoo!Heidi L. Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16451784994050488061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-10743114547669625142013-02-10T18:46:01.854-07:002013-02-10T18:46:01.854-07:00I'm a total judger! This was fascinating, Donn...I'm a total judger! This was fascinating, Donna. I love stuff like this! Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15747144518868320969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-66715700228467912132013-02-10T17:41:49.929-07:002013-02-10T17:41:49.929-07:00I might be a bit of both, but I think I lean more ...I might be a bit of both, but I think I lean more towards judging. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-48666708627241554502013-02-07T20:18:44.498-07:002013-02-07T20:18:44.498-07:00Wouldn't the world be simpler if we all were t...Wouldn't the world be simpler if we all were the same. But where would the fun be? I think I'm not married yet because I'm so stubborn--things have to be my way. How in the devil will I make it married? Haha I'll learn. This topic is interesting when put in the perspective of writing characters. There definitely has to be conflict between characters and this post is helpful to add a little spice to the conflict. I mean, how one character will reacte or function in the same situation as another. Am I making sense? Anyway, great post that is helpful for writing!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06519655950073446857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-60701791119719752222013-02-07T08:22:34.642-07:002013-02-07T08:22:34.642-07:00I'm not that last statement either *shiver* :)...I'm not that last statement either *shiver* :)David P. Kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17259276981865439853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-32211187324244535772013-02-06T20:47:33.657-07:002013-02-06T20:47:33.657-07:00I hate to be a "judger" but I definitely...I hate to be a "judger" but I definitely like my closer. Sometimes its a curse. :)Leigh Covingtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16377634002477171615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-61384550205126824622013-02-06T14:32:20.667-07:002013-02-06T14:32:20.667-07:00I think I'm halfway between these two. I don&#...I think I'm halfway between these two. I don't like to make rushed judgements but I believe that after a certain period of time you need to just DO something, and I usually feel better after I've made a concrete decision.Searching for the Storyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02491208553618412968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-1526026453494322332013-02-06T13:00:14.068-07:002013-02-06T13:00:14.068-07:00L.G., you make me smile.
Johanna, realizing the o...L.G., you make me smile.<br /><br />Johanna, realizing the other person's difference is important. Of course, maybe I was just immature. lol<br /><br />Nancy, oh yeah. Conflict. The thing I love about the conflict built into the Kiersey personality is that it's built into the people. Doesn't mean we can't learn but I think it'd be like being right handed and learning to use your left hand. Never quite a good. So seeing a different viewpoint is possible, just not necessarily comfortable.<br /><br />Sia, once again gotta love the conflict. I like more organic conflict anyway. There are many genres that require a villain, but sometimes the villain is just life.<br /><br />J.A., good thing you're pushing outside of that comfort zone. Of course, everything about this writing gig is about pushing outside of our comfort zones. lolDonna K. Weaverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15763832177263927311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-61399862299943051512013-02-06T12:32:39.727-07:002013-02-06T12:32:39.727-07:00I'm 100% P. I would spend forever writing a bo...I'm 100% P. I would spend forever writing a book and never do anything else if I didn't push outside of my comfort zone!Jennie Bennetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17331827076858223497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-65060047961192995382013-02-06T11:43:15.534-07:002013-02-06T11:43:15.534-07:00I'm a mix of both with the stick to itness of ...I'm a mix of both with the stick to itness of the J.<br /><br />My characters...for the longest times I didn't give them enough conflict--internal or external. Took me awhile to learn that just because I like peace in my life, doesn't mean it makes a good story. The more conflict and things to grow thru and overcome the better the story.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.siamckye.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">Sia McKye OVER COFFEE</a>~Sia McKye~https://www.blogger.com/profile/08470562659597351033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-48783942292649667212013-02-06T11:21:46.502-07:002013-02-06T11:21:46.502-07:00I'm definitely a tweener with a tendency to le...I'm definitely a tweener with a tendency to lean toward J. I think it's a good compromise. As for characters, the bigger the void between, the better the conflict!Nancy Thompsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05735642863696266005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-30318471089179317502013-02-06T11:09:53.379-07:002013-02-06T11:09:53.379-07:00I think there would be conflicts, but they might a...I think there would be conflicts, but they might also make a really good team. One seeing things in a way the other didn't. Each picking up on things the other missed.Johanna Garthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15515478890074610814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-25289639202735617342013-02-06T10:21:28.532-07:002013-02-06T10:21:28.532-07:00Btw, "I was noddd" is the NEW grammar, a...Btw, "I was noddd" is the NEW grammar, according to Oxford. :)Luanne G. Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15762881276976395955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-57760762099106186072013-02-06T10:20:28.940-07:002013-02-06T10:20:28.940-07:00This is the one I straddle the fence on. And even ...This is the one I straddle the fence on. And even as I read your descriptions I was nodded, thinking, "yes, that's me" On both. Somehow I manage to get things done...eventually. :)Luanne G. Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15762881276976395955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-11061565345747821122013-02-06T09:40:10.769-07:002013-02-06T09:40:10.769-07:00Pat and Slamdunk--yes there are times and places f...Pat and Slamdunk--yes there are times and places for both.<br /><br />Mel--believe me, I've got my share of clutter, especially now that hubby's retired. lol <br /><br />Stina--not wishy washy. I like to think of it as flexible. lol<br /><br />Ilima--that's key, I think, to any relationship. Learning how to play to each other's strengths. A few differences in the Kiersey can be good. People who are opposites in everything can really have a hard time because they never see eye to eye on anything.Donna K. Weaverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15763832177263927311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-11888128395000028762013-02-06T08:34:09.211-07:002013-02-06T08:34:09.211-07:00My husband is a perceiver and I'm a judger. I ...My husband is a perceiver and I'm a judger. I think early on in marriage we'd butt heads a lot, but now it's awesome...I think we make a great team and play on each other's strengths nicely.ilimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17899071063752311737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-42852481959980650772013-02-06T08:03:49.253-07:002013-02-06T08:03:49.253-07:00I'm with Shelly. I'm both, depending on th...I'm with Shelly. I'm both, depending on the situation. Hmmm. I'm wishy washy. lolStinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11415189347501942340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-73086957632453334932013-02-06T07:34:24.838-07:002013-02-06T07:34:24.838-07:00You would end up in a sobbing, huddled mess at my ...You would end up in a sobbing, huddled mess at my house. Book wise, I think it's safe to say I have four projects in the works. I have three craft projects I need to finish. Then there's the general housework that gets ignored when I'm in the writing zone.<br /><br />I think I'm more like your hubby with seeing the big picture, but sometimes I hone in on one aspect and I lose focus on the stuff around me. So, I guess I'm a combination. Though, when it's something I know in my gut is right, I jump to a decision without fully researching it. I blame it on being a Gemini. It all depends on my mood :)<br /><br />MelanieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-88749171256429960062013-02-06T07:19:14.847-07:002013-02-06T07:19:14.847-07:00It is good to know some of the psychology and soci...It is good to know some of the psychology and social science behind what makes us click. <br /><br />I like to think that I can adjust to whatever the situation is, but like you, I'd prefer to take an organized approach and stay true with those nasty deadlines. Slamdunkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13087161268629251860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-36572028628803751682013-02-06T07:05:18.489-07:002013-02-06T07:05:18.489-07:00I have to join the group as both are sure there at...I have to join the group as both are sure there at my lair.Pat Hatthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07745293224202430152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-15661281253579491992013-02-06T05:29:28.357-07:002013-02-06T05:29:28.357-07:00Shelly, Alex, and Natalie, we all have some of eac...Shelly, Alex, and Natalie, we all have some of each in us. Some more so than others. My J is quite strong, but I had a coworker who was an X here--scored dead even between the two. And my hubby is quite strong as a P. It doesn't mean he can't see detail, he just doesn't give it the same weight I would.<br /><br />Donna K. Weaverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15763832177263927311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-89065477181687328932013-02-06T05:15:06.945-07:002013-02-06T05:15:06.945-07:00I'm a combination too. I am a lot like your hu...I'm a combination too. I am a lot like your husband in juggling a lot with lots of different deadlines. I'm an attorney and have over 200 cases right now. It's essential to keep track of all the deadlines and multi-task. Thanks for sharing this.Natalie Aguirrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03756087804171246660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-9763354113226919182013-02-06T04:58:55.974-07:002013-02-06T04:58:55.974-07:00Yes, I think I'm a combination. I gather infor...Yes, I think I'm a combination. I gather information and never make hasty decisions, and yet I like order and deadlines. Maybe I'm just messed up...Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7281599665527326905.post-51886897776838164712013-02-06T04:23:17.012-07:002013-02-06T04:23:17.012-07:00What if you're a combo? I have a tendency to b...What if you're a combo? I have a tendency to be a bit of both.<br /><br />Hugs and chocolate,<br />Shellyshellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09596621767297173021noreply@blogger.com